I'd been at Newlife for only a month, barelyknew anyone here and into my office walks a young adult who promptly says to me, after the chit-chat conversation, "what do I need to do to become a better leader?"
I was speechless. Because I'd all but given up that people actually cared about extending and developing the leadership gift that God has given to leaders. I was taken a back and then realised that I didn't know this person well enough to be able to give any sort of valid, worthy response. But since then, many conversation with this young adult and with others have unfolded around this question, which have been enormously beneficial to increasing our leadership depth and breadth.
But it all boils down to a single trait, passionate teachability that I believe every leader and potential leader needs to have. If as leaders we are not willing to be taught, or to pursue teaching opportunities that will stretch and equip us as leaders, then we SHOULD NOT BE LEADING!
I've worked with so many different leaders in the past, older, younger, mature, immature, brilliant, half average, etc. But the leaders who have left a bitter taste in my mouth are the ones who refused to be able to receive guidance, or be responsible for increasing their skill base. And I'm not only talking about leaders who wouldn't accept my instruction or insight, the leaders I'm thinking ofencapsulate that old saying 'they are a law unto themselves'. Leaders (who aren't actually real leaders mind you), or people in positions of power and authority abuse those they lead and those they lead with when they refuse to be teachable.
But it is an act of submission that defuses pride. And pride can have no place in servant leadership.
Look for those who are teachable, and then teach them well!